执子之手,与子偕老 [17/1 悠然看见的场景]

戏中我们时常都会看到一对老夫妇互相牵手漫步,互相帮忙等等的一些浪漫场景...
但是总觉得现世间这种情景真的很稀罕....可以说没有... 不过上个星期六我终于看到了!!!
由于靠近新年.想体验一下市集拥挤的场景所以就早起与父母亲到那儿逛逛....
我们经过了旧关仔交古钟楼的round about 看见了一对老夫妻... 丈夫正在写生画画而妻子就怕太阳晒着了丈夫,就在旁为丈夫称伞...
这正是一幅浪漫的画面呀~
世间的现实,残酷,诱惑让人们望了自己的本性,生存的意义....
正因为世间的残酷离婚率越来越高.... 这真的是婚姻的原先意义吗?? 很多人喜欢在教堂结婚...因为很浪漫,很漂亮...最重要还有那个I DO!! 不过有几个人真正知道这个I DO 的道理呢??
I,[Groom\'s name],take you [bride name],to be my wife,my partner in life and my one true love.

I will cherish our friendship and love you today,tomorrow,and forever.

I will trust you and honor you.

I will laugh with you and cry with you.

I will love you faithfully.

Through the best and the worst,

Through the difficult and the easy.

What may come I will always be there.

As I have given you my hand to hold.

So I give you my life to keep.

So help me God.

In unison

Entreat me not to leave you,or to return from following after you,

For where you go I will go,

and where you stay I will stay.

Your people will be my people,

and your God will be my God.

And where you die,I will die and there I will be buried.

May the Lord do with me and more if anything but death parts you from me.

~Till death do us apart~  现今的人似乎忽略了这些....说什么吵架就要离婚,什么性格不和就离婚....难道结婚是儿戏吗??  离婚是换衣服吗?? 不喜欢就换掉...
竟然选择了对方就要一起守护到老.....虽然偶尔生活的紧迫是难免的,不过最后一定要守护在一起....这才是婚姻的意义!!!!
虽然想法有点老套不过婚姻这事乃是上天给予的恩点,因此我们应该好好珍惜~
除此之外在这繁忙的生活中有时不妨看看周围....有时侯会有出乎意料的感触.收获....
做人可别只活在自己的圈子...因当多用眼睛观察,体验,感受....